Thursday, June 22, 2006

Being Beautiful Part two

Make the effort to look good
Keeping yourself well groomed and smartly dressed will show that you have confidence in yourself. If you don't apply make up and dress scruffily, you'll give the impression that you don't think your worth the offer and others will pick up on that and treat you accordingly.

Create eye contact
When you're talking to someone, look them directly in the eyes and maintain that contact throughout the conversation looking at the floor show a complete lack of self-esteem, and if you keep moving your eyes away it will look like you're nervous and on't believe in what you're saying. This will make the other person disbelieve it, too.

Stay Calm
Be calm and serene. Take a deep breath before starting to speak and think before you open your mouth. If you babble away to someone you've just met, they'll think your jittery and nervous. You don't have to answer questions immediately. By taking your time, you'll come across as confident and in charge of the conversation.

Make the most of your strong points
If you have great eyes or slim hips, use eyes make up that will make your eyes look stunning, or wear a skirt or trousers that will accentuate your hips. By drawing attention to the parts of you that look good, you'll find others are less likely to notice that bits you're unhappy with. Also by showing off your strong points, it's like you're telling the world that you're happy and confident with what you have. And that a good signal to give out.

Walk tall
Hold your head up, focus your eyes straight ahead, and carry yourself upright. Deportment is an obvious indication of someone's personality. Keeping your head down show signs of nervousness and will do nothing to make anyone think you believe in yourself. Also avoid twisting your hands, standing awkwardly or shifting from foot to foot. Focusing on your posture will not only give you an air of confidence, but will also make you appear taller and slimmer.

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